I would like to ask you in this life only for one thing - to be a man! Forget the recent rebellion of feminism - help women with their bags, pay for them at the cafe, open doors for them, protect them, take on their issues or at least be interested in them. Maybe you'll understand why you need to do all this, when you get home, and there everything will become so cosy, towels witll be clean and lie in different colors in your bathroom, a plate with dinner will be on the table waiting for you. Or perhaps when everything will be slipping out of your hands - work, business, friends, and she will be next to you every day. Will hold your hand and hold your head telling you that you are the best. And, perhaps, when you see how much health and nerves, she lost while wearing your child at heart, or when, after hours of 12-16-20 in the throes of childbirth, she will give you a baby.
Be kind to her.
Stop wag her nerves with your pride, man's logic or strength of your character. Call her. Especially when you had a fight, call her. If only you could have seen her crying bitterly after you had a fight by the phone or shut the door. No, she doesn`t not cry as nicely as it it shown in the movies: in the pillow and quietly. She weeps bitterly, wiping tears on her swollen, red face. She howls of pain that you caused her. Call her back, come to her. Grab her up and take out of this grief, as from fire.
Do not hurt her.
Do not shout, do not insult. You can kill her with your words. Her, a kind and gentle girl. It becomes a vicious, cruel and vindictive, just because you once could angrily shout in her face a "bitch." You can thousand times regrett later on what you said or did. But the moment has passed. You have no idea how unbearably painful it is to hear of the most beloved and dear the angry words. You can live in peace after, but she would not forget. And then you, dear men, you will be surprised how can we have so much cynicism and indifference with each other. Do not blame her. Better "that jurk that looked at her" be the guilty one. But she needs to stay saint for you. If a girl wants to cheat,she will cheat without letting you know. But if you notice, she did it on purpose. It means she misses you being jealous,she feels not needed,not wanted.,she hesitated in your feelings.Girls need only you to be near.If you won`t be near,someone else will be instead of you.
Tell her more about your future together.
Let it be like in the cinema. Even if it`s too fake. Still speak! If suddenly tomorrow will not come... You will never get the chance to tell her everything. Promise things. She is so happy when she hears your promises, when she dreams, hopes for something very good. Even if you leave the day after tomorrow, those fifteen minutes of happiness were worth it, when you were lying in the bed and was dreaming of your beautiful future together! Every second is worth it! There are so few seconds like this in our lives. And we also limit ourselves. We think we are building a relationship! But a relationship should just live! You need to say what you think about right now, here in this moment.
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