About the one, who isn`t with us anymore. And about the one who can still survive.

Recently two 14 years-old girls jumped  from the 15th floor building in a city not far from Moscow.Two destinies were tight up together since the childhood. They were always together, joking, making plans for the future...and they decided to stop their lives. Before the fatal jump girls left a note in their flats. There was written they decided to commit a suicide because of the fear of punishment for a two-week absence from classes at school.

"Why?"-you may ask.
"I don`t know",- I`ll answer you without hiding anything. After all, the real reason for this no one will ever know. Even the one who was in a close relationship with them. We can`t get inside the person`s head and read his thoughts. But we can judge or encourage the person for his behaviour. And this is our right. 
I judge. I will never ever understand and take this kind of actions.

If you read the comments about this topic, you`ll probably unconsciously shudder.Some people felt sorry for girls, for parents, for teachers, who are now going to spend most of their time at the judge-courts. Someone has found the audacity to make jokes about this situation. The cruelty of people in general is actually a different story...

And the variety of comments can be named for a long time. The main meaning of all this is that mostly no one stayed apathetic about this.
As for me, this is first of all a stupid and selfish act. Not only because they left their parents until the end of their lives with the scars on their hearts. But also can there still be smth more stupid than depriving yourself of all the pleasures of life? These girls hardly were thinking about the aim of life and what their parents are going to be like after their death.
According to their friends, they got up with a bad company. They were often seen at the place, named as "pipes". There you can meet mainly frozen part of society. People who don`t care about anything, either about the environment, or about their own health. 
I used to pass this place, unfortunately. And every time I observed the same pattern... Whether it`s +30 or -20 outdoors there are always crowds of people. Although "people" is only a title. They have grown until this evolutionary chain only according to the passport, I guess...They are more like animals. Gregarious animals. Everyone have a cigarette in one hand and Jaguar in another. To vary this scenic menu somehow they have a break with sun seeds from time to time. You don`t have to be genius to guess that they don`t clean after themselves after another drinking party. Where they "eat" they also poop.
Looking at all this many questions appear.
Don`t these people have a home? Can`t they spend their time in any other way? Is it that interesting to ruin your own lives and lungs? Why can`t they go and visit their friends and watch a movie or smth? Or go somewhere to a cafe and drink a cup of hot tea or coffee, for example? Or take a trip out of the town?
The most surprising thing is that nowadays you can meet at this kind of places mostly young women than men. How can a girl fall so low? First of all you need to respect yourself, if you want the others to respect you. And who do you think is going to respect a girl who is dressing like a whore and who smells like the exhaust pipe?!
This kind of people are ruining their brains and then don`t see the meaning of life. They can`t see the solution of different kind of problems, which for a normal person can be easy ones. And after they don`t find the solution they kill themselves.
It`s now not only about these girls, but about the whole society.
However the life is hard, it is still a life. You feel. You shouldn`t just exist. Especially not exist at all. You shouldn`t be afraid to make mistakes. After all, life don`t come with instructions.
These girls didn`t know how to solve their problems. Perhaps because of the bad company, or because of the strict parents, or maybe because of the bad school. Teenagers in general tend to have a huge maximalism. Some of them stay with it even when they grow up. But still not everyone commit a suicide. Because, fortunately, people understand the main thing, that however old you are your problems can be solved.  To kill yourself is not an exit. It is idiocy. As someone said: "Even if someone ate you, you still have 2 exits...to get out from the mouth or from the ass".
The main thing is a desire. Desire to solve the problem. Desire to live. Where there is a desire-there are also opportunities. If there is no desire-there is a justification.
Apparently, these girls had no desire.
The wise man learns on other`s mistakes. The smart man learns on his own mistakes. A fool man doesn`t learn anything at all.
Think about it.